The Adventures of Match.com, Scene 5

JMSG Revisited

I saw him again two times this week - Thursday and Saturday. Both were his idea. I was wondering prior if he was blowing me off. I saw him Sunday and had a great time. The next day we texted back and forth, he said he had a great time with me.

I texted, "let me know when you want to see that scary movie..."

And he never texted back. I thought I was opening the door for him to make plans with me during the week, but all I got was a silent response. So I tested the waters with a rather neutral text the next day. He then came up with the idea of having a scary movie night on Thursday, and cooking me dinner on Saturday.

Okay so he wasn't blowing me off, but I wondered if he was one of those people that have a hard time responding to messages and making plans.

Anyway, I saw him Thursday and we watched the original Japanese version of The Grudge. The American version scared the crap out of me and I didn't want to be alone. I thought the original Japanese version would be even scarier....but it wasn't. The American version was much better.

So we giggled and made fun of the movie...and I ended up staying the night because there was in fact a really creepy scene and I didn't want to be in my bed alone with the fear that some crazy ghost might be leaning over my bed. :)

Our first kiss happened after we were already in bed...which he commented he thought was "funny." He wasn't sure I was giving him the green light. I tried to explain that at first I am always just a little guarded or shy, but once we break the ice, that all goes away.

So we made out but I eventually insisted we go to sleep.

...Then there was Saturday....

We met late so there was no time for dinner, so he came over to my place and we talked and kissed some more, then eventually ended up in my bed.

In terms of my concern discussed earlier, I will have to acquiesce with those people who commented that technique is more important:)

He had great technique, but more importantly, he had the kind of attitude I love - the desire to learn and the desire to please. There is nothing better than that in a lover.

We talked about him coming to Cabo with me in October, and he wants to go!

I am excited.

He is lovable in every way. I will miss him when I have to leave PoDunk for good.